Hanging with the Mckenzies

This past week we got to spend some time with our good friends Billy and Brenda Mckenzie and their two kids, Jacob and Jayda. Jayda was born just over a month after Macy so we think that's pretty cool. We definitely don't get to see them nearly enough since they moved down to Bakersfield. It was only a short visit but we enjoyed every minute of it. It was great to see Macy and Jayda playing together (if you could call it that!) and hopefully it will be the start of a lifelong friendship. It was kinda crazy to have all of these people (especially babies) in our small town home but it seemed to work out OK. I think Macy likes it when there are a lot of people around. That's a good thing considering I work at a church and am around lots of people all the time! Of course, all good things have to come to an end and we parted ways so that they could visit other people. We don't know when we'll get to see them again but I'm sure both girls will have changed a lot the next time we do. I personally think they should move back up to the NW but I understand that we've all got jobs to do. It's funny how life changes and we all grow up, get married, have children. Sometimes I feel exactly like I did 10 years ago but I know in reality that I've changed a lot as we all do. Well, I didn't mean to get all philosophical but it is interesting to sit back and reflect.

Happy Father's Day!

Well, if anyone has ever earned a great Father's Day, it's Tim. As you may have noticed, Tim has been through a lot of change since our little Macy was born and he's been so involved at home. It's not always easy, but he's always here for us and that is so awesome. It's such a blessing as a new mommy to be able to rely on your husband for help. More than that, I think every mom wants their daughter to have a doting father, but as we ladies know, we can't control that. I know I am truly blessed to not only call Tim my husband, but also the father of our dear little Mace. Happy first Father's Day babe. WE LOVE DADDY!

Roll Over...

Fun stuff, this was a couple of weeks ago when we first started to give Macy some "tummy time". She surprised us with how strong her neck was and was able to look up almost 90 degrees. Of course now it's pretty easy for her but back then it was pretty cool. Now I don't think she is intentionally rolling over but it's still really fun for us to watch! I think because her head is so heavy if she leans too much one way, then she'll fall over. Enjoy!

The wait is over!

Well, this past Monday, June 2, 2008 my sister Sugin and her boyfriend of 9 years Sol Calderon were married at the courthouse in downtown Seattle. It was a great day for the whole family to get together and share in this event. Originally, they were planning on getting married in Hawaii but because of time and cost restrictions, this worked out best. It was a good thing too because there are a lot of stresses that come with planning a big wedding. Although this was a small and relatively informal service it was quick, fun and memorable. It was funny though because right in the middle of the judge's wedding "talk" my grandma (who doesn't speak a lick of english) starts talking out loud. We later find out that she was complaining the the judge was talking too much and this was taking longer than the planned 15 minutes she was told. You gotta love her spunk though. I'm really happy that my sister has found such a wonderful and caring partner. I've gotten to know Sol for the past 9 years and I'm proud to have him as my brother-in-law. I look forward to spending more time with the both of them for many years. Of course in the midst of all the wedding stuff everyone was sooo excited to get to see Macy. Because of work and time committments, Mom and Sugin only get to see Macy about once a month. When they do get to see her, they definitely make the most of their time.

On a different note, both Kristy and I have gotten sick in the past two weeks :( Kristy got sick right after her friend Tanya from San Diego left to go back home. I was fearful that both Macy and myself would catch whatever Kristy had. As Kristy was feeling better and recovering I still hadn't felt sick at all so I thought I was in the clear. Well, wouldn't you know on Monday as we're driving up to Seattle for my sister's wedding I start to get those wonderful aches and pains that preclude a cold/flu. Now I'm the one that's sick and Kristy is mostly better. Macy still hasn't shown that she has gotten what we have and we're hoping that's because she's got a strong little immune system. We've never had to deal with a sick baby yet and I'm sure it's not fun at all. Last Friday, Macy received two immunization shots and she ended up with a mild fever. Needless to say, she did not deal with that very well. I can't imagine what she'll be like when she's sick over a period of a couple days to a week. If all that wasn't enough, Kristy's neck ended up bothering her so much on Sunday morning that we had to miss church and take her to an "emergency" neck adjustment at the chiropractor. When her neck or back is out of alignment, that usually means she gets a migrane. Once that happens, she is completely out of commission. Hopefully we'll be able to get her adjust long before that ever happens but it's really hard to tell sometimes.

Well, that's mostly what's been going on with the Sibley's the past few weeks. Take care everyone!! Oh, oh, I forgot to mention that a few weeks ago when we put Macy on her stomach she was able to lift her head a full 90%! Here she is in all her cuteness:

First Laugh

Reading Tim's comments about the last few days reminds me that even though Macy's on strike and it is uncomfortably hot, Macy also decided to debut her laugh this Saturday. It was AMAZING! Seriously, my heart was so uplifted by it. Tim was downstairs with Macy and he stood her on the bathroom counter in front of the mirror and bounced her. She loves to bounce and started rocking out pretty hard - smiling and eventually laughing! I missed it, but later we were out at dinner and Tim got her bouncing again and I got to hear her laugh. She has such a big, infectious smile and it was so incredible to hear her laugh. There's nothing more precious in life than seeing your little baby happy. Even with the strike, we had some fun events this weekend too:)

I'm on strike!

I guess all good things eventually do come to an end. We were doing so well with Macy's feedings that I didn't expect it when she decided to go on what they call a "feeding strike". It's not that she won't eat at all, she just doesn't eat as much and when she does eat, she fusses like crazy. This obviously effects her overall day and her sleep somewhat. She still sleeps pretty well but she's not doing as well as she was the previous 3-4 weeks. It really started to happen just before Kristy and Macy left for San Diego for Kristy's grandmother's funeral but we just thought it was a one time occurrence. She (Macy) did ok in SD but when they came back she started her strike. It's kinda distressing when you can't really figure out exactly why they act the way they do or what they want. It doesn't really help that the weather has been extremely warm the past 3 days. Don't get me wrong, I like sunny weather but unfortunately we don't have any AC in our house so it can get pretty warm and uncomfortable for all of us. I guess that this will give us a preview of what to expect for most of the summer. I'm currently working on getting our bedroom AC setup so I'll have to hurry that process up. On Friday, we went to the doctor for Macy's checkup and everything seems to be going as it should be. The doctor reassured us that the "feeding strike" was common and not to worry too much (easy for her to say!). This was also the appointment where Macy was supposed to get all of her immunization shots. Kristy has been really concerned about the effects of the shots and bought a book on the subject as well as discuss it with other people. I figured that getting shots were perfectly fine and normal but there's a lot of other considerations that go along with that (which I won't go into now). We ended up giving Macy on one shot but what I didn't necessarily expect was that both Kristy and I got one as well! Man, my arm is still a little sore from that bad boy. Anyway, it's been an eventful last 4 days or so. Parenthood can definitely throw a few curve balls your way so you've got to be ready.

When the Sun Comes Out...

Hallelujah! We had such a beautiful day here on Sunday and it seemed like the spirits of the whole city of Vancouver were lifted! Of course Kristy loves any excuse to dress-up Macy and give her some cool accessories. I don't know though, those glasses look awfully reminiscent of a famous singer (Elton John anyone??). I'm not quite sure yet if Macy likes the sunny weather or not. It's not like we've had but 2 days of nice weather since she's been born though! One of my favorite things to do is take her for a walk around our neighborhood. We have a lot of nice paved sidewalks and little parks all around us to take Macy in her stroller. Besides, it's a good chance for us to get outside, get some exercise and get some fresh air. When we first had Macy, it seemed as though we were cooped-up in the house way too much. I really felt like I was getting cabin fever. Now Kristy and I feel comfortable with taking Macy pretty much wherever we need to go. Aside from Macy getting a little sun, I was able to do some stuff around the house. I have found that PM (Post-Macy) I have felt the need to do some constructive things with our dwelling place whether that be fixing things inside the house that have been neglected for far too long or sprucing up our limited yard space around our home. I have to be honest, it's quite invigorating and fullfilling.
Newsflash: Kristy and I got to go on our first date since Macy was born last Friday! We were originally going to go to a movie but on our way to drop Macy off at the babysitter (some great folks from church) Kristy realized she forgot to bring the bottle. So we had to turn around and go back to get it which botched our movie plans. That however, did not ruin our night. After we left Macy with sitters we went... Bowling! It's been a while since we did that and after a couple of games we went to the cool arcade section of the bowling alley to play. We then grabbed a bite to eat just before we had to get back and get the little one. On a side note, the place we ate at was called the Doner Haus and it serves these "gyro type" sandwiches which are out of this world. It's got a cool German themed environment and killer food. Just thought I'd throw that in there. Back on track, one of the nicest things about the date was that we didn't talk any baby stuff. It's not that we don't desperately love our girl but we just need a time-out on occassion. I wonder when other people have their first date after the birth of their child. Anyone want to chime in? We're blessed to have a ton of people at our church willing to take Macy for an evening (could you blame them?) so I figure we'll be taking advantage of that on a regular basis.

That's all for now, I hope that at least a few people are enjoying these blogs because I'm actually starting to like writing them!

Lettin' Loose

Ya know, when Macy was only about a week old someone said to me that things would get easier and she would become a lot more interactive. As they said this I remember thinking in my head how much I wanted to slap them in the face for their ridiculousness but now I'm starting to hear the truth in their statement. Granted, things aren't necessarily "easy" right now but we've started to get into a routine and groove. Macy is starting to interact with us more and more each day and that is certainly encouraging. Parenthood is something that has flipped my world on its head. I didn't really realize the amount of time I spent (before Macy) just hanging and messing around. Now it seems as though almost all of my "awake" time is occupied with something Macy-related. I definitely don't get around to some of my old hobbies/recreation (reading, movies, PS3) like I used to. I wonder if that will come back around in time. Part of me wants to be done with this early stage (the lazy, slacker part) and move on to the stage where she's more responsive. Maybe I just need to enjoy this time for what it is and let the other stuff come when it's time. I will say that no matter how hard things can get, I just keep falling in love with Macy more each day. Sappy I know, but it's the truth. It's times like these (see pic) that tells me what I'm doing is one of the coolest things in the world.

-Tim

From Mommy's Perspective

Well, I just wanted to add to Tim's original message. This is my first official blog too. It's so wonderful to be Macy's mom and Tim's wife. We've been through lots of changes lately, but they're all good. Macy is so much fun. She loves to talk (in the newborn sense!) and smile, which is so much fun. She's super strong and she's really a good girl. She likes lights and music and lots of noise - perfect for us! I have to say that it's wonderful to not be pregnant anymore either:) It's been interesting figuring out how to balance motherhood with everything else in life, but I feel like she's fitting into our world and our family wonderfully. I'm so excited to watch her grow and to see her learn new things. What an adventure we've begun!

The beginning

Well... I've tried this blogging thing on myspace but I haven't kept up with it as well as I would have liked. I don't expect this new endeavor to be much different but I just wanted a way to communicate what's going on with the Sibley family. I'm sure Kristy will be adding her thoughts and experiences to our little site as well. It's just sometimes too hard to communicate what's going on with us to everyone on a regular basis. I hope this will be different. I've really enjoyed viewing some other folk's blogs and I figured some people would enjoy view ours. This communicating thing is especially important now since the birth of our daughter Macy. We want people to be able to see her grow up and all the cool things that happen along the way!

So, please feel free to look around, jot down a thought or comment and ultimately get a small taste of what life in the Sibley family is like.

-Tim